Do you people that are against gay marriage understand the heartbreak you are causing?

I have many gay friends and I say if you love the person you should be allowed to get married! It's a free country why shouldn't you be able to marry who you want to! It's mostly high rolling religious people who are stopping you, ask a person on the street and they'll probably say get married, unless they are church people then they'll say your going to hell. It's your life be happy and love who you want to love!