Should i be expecting him to contact me?

you are no stranger to being a mom, but he is totally new at being a dad.. he also may be a bit intimidated by you, and your strength to go it alone, or with someone else, and not bother him. I think he needs to feel needed in some way, before he steps up. Also, if he doesn't have a job, he probably won't help you financially, and he is seeing these other women with hopes he can move on, but as you see, in fact he cannot.. not enough room to say more I guess.. Good luck 2 U, and get in touch with him.. Lay off all men for a while, and focus on the little ones you have who will be with you forever! You are their hero!