Should i get my sometimes romantic friend a gift?

k so the story is.......ive been talking to this man for a year weve been off and on. i do care about him though. hes soldier and i know hes a good man deep down inside because ive seen it. i dont know what his problem is right now. i would like for him to step up to the plate and be a man. tell me whats going on. but i dont think hes capable of it or if he is he wont. but either way even if we never get to together ill always think of him as my friend. ill also always be here for him. but i adore him so. i have feeling he doesnt have anything really nice. he loves the cowboys. i remembered as a little girl my dad had a wool varsity jacket with his favorite team on it. wool jackets r clics. theyll never go out of style and i was thinking of getting him one. not for any other reasons than id just like him to have something nice like that, that he can hold on to till hes old. i dont even know if hed like but he could sell it i dont even care. i dont even plan on telling him its from me. because ill be embared if he knew it was. i dont want to be thanked if he likes it and i dont want him to think im being a pushover if he doesnt trying to impress him or anything. i simply just want him to have it because i think there nice and hed look good in one and there expensive and last forever.